He is undecided

Jeremy was helping his dad with his truck last weekend (it wouldn’t start when he came to pick up Jamie).  When his dad left, Jeremy hugged him and told him that he was going to go with him next time.  I was surprised and happy that his dad must have done something that would make Jeremy happy and [...]

Child Support Issues

Well, tonight is the night that I am supposed to see child support getting sent to my bank account. I don’t know if that will happen tonight or not. (Sometimes it happens on Tuesday nights so I still have one more night to check if it doesn’t happen tonight) My ex husband went to another [...]

End Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence Can Be Stopped If you suspect that a friend or loved one is being physically hurt in a relationship, you may not know what to do or how you can help.  And what do you do if the person being battered is you?  The thing to remember is that violence is not acceptable [...]

Domestic Violence Awareness

October is the month we need to learn about Domestic Violence and about preventing domestic violence. Domestic Violence Awareness Month began as the “Day of Unity” in October 1981. The idea was started by the National Coalition against Domestic Violence and has grown from a day-long event to one that lasted a week. Finally it [...]

Surgery Coming

Well, Jamie is having surgery on September 23rd.  He wanted to wait until after his birthday came and went before he had it again.  His birthday was the 15th.  He was 12 years old… WOW I can’t imagine that!  I made him a cake but he didn’t try any of the icing this time.  Usually [...]

Update on the fam

Well, it has been a little while.  There have been a few things going on here.  First, the kids and I met with the Guardian ad Litem and she recommended letting the boys see their dad the last three Sundays before we go to court.  They went this past Sunday for their first visit.  They [...]

Sorry about the delay

My laptop has been broken for about a month and I just got it back yesterday.   I have been really going crazy with out it.  I have an old HP computer that is about 10 years old that I have been trying to get online with but the fact that it is that old should [...]

court is done again for now

Well, court has been post poned until August 4th.  His visitation has been suspended until then and he has to bring a progress report from his therapist with him when he comes to court in August.  I hope this turns out well and their dad takes the chance to get better so he can try to [...]

Today….

Hello.  Today is the day before Mother’s Day.  Tomorrow is the day before court day.  I am anxious for the day to come and get this over with.  I just don’t see how the judge can not see how all of this effects these two boys and how he can not help them.  I can’t [...]

A “running time post”

This post is going to be a “running time post”…. I will be adding to it until I know what is going to happen.  Sunday, April 20, 2008 they boys came home from their dads.  They didn’t really act that much different than they usually act.  Jeremy went to school on Monday as usual but [...]